You clearly
You did not break it on the younger brother or a dog, did not throw anything, did not connect the old, irrelevant facts.
You clearly explained to me that you think of a specific problem, and it is very good.
Or something similar.
Now I am ready to help the teenager to rise by the following step of a scale of anger.
Please, rumple that this process can drag on for years as the teenager can rise only by one division for once.
I solved, on what level I want that he / she rose in the future, and asked the teenager about it, but not simply reported.